I'm back!!!! - California Fishing

Doomz · 08-07-2007, 09:26 PM

Man it's been a while since I've been on here. Life has been real shitty for me over the past 4 months. But things are getting better. I've missed you guys in here. So here's what has been going on with me

1. Finally went fishing in Madera @ my cousin private spot and caught 6 bass in an hour.

2. Tipped a canoe in the San Joaquin river and lost 2 set up worth $60 each and I lost my tackle, but some dude in a canoe found it and brought it back to me.

3. Marriage was on the rocks and wife was getting ready to leave me. I moved out and was staying here and there. We've been working it out and things are almost patched up and I'm back at home.

4. Started a second job and began to drink a lot and found myself back in AA. I quit that job and it's been 6 weeks since I had a drink. I still got the nightclub job.

5. Been busting my ### for money and selling off some of my personal stuff to help pay bill, but hey I just got a $200 a month raise at work this weekend.

6. I enrolled into school and got some grants and passed the testing and I start the 27th of this month.

7. Been on the river twice this month and caught 30 Bluegill one day and about 20 the second time out. River is doing well but I need to do some control on those damn sucker fish. I'm looking for a bow & reel set up that's not too expensive. I've seen easily 100 suckerfish in that river!

8. Oh almost forgot, my computer crashed on me and I had to buy another one.

Yeah so my life has been down and it's on its way back up.

spooky007 · 08-07-2007, 09:28 PM

Glad to see you back and that your working out your problems!! Great job o not drinking!! Take care of yourself first and your fam and everything will work it self out!!

Al

BeachBear · 08-07-2007, 09:31 PM

Ebb and flow of life, but it really sounds like things are on the up and up. My wife says my fishing addiction is better than what's out there and there's no chance to be cheating to boot. I'm actually on my way up there this weekend. Don't know if I'll fish, but it sure sounds good. Congrats on getting on the up and up.

Homeslice · 08-07-2007, 10:17 PM

Tough dice doomz. Glad to see you have no fear in sharing the personal issues with the trusty hookups crew. We all have problems, especially women, and to spill them out is therapy for us all. And with the cat our of the bag, it's time to be heard,

1. I'm enlouthed in guilt for cheating on my neighbor's wife and stealing his laptop. He thought it was a coincidence that I bought the same laptop when in fact his engraved initials on the top shell was covered in cum stains during a few 23 hr porn sessions. It go viruses now so I think I'll give it back.

2. My car broke down on the cajon pass and floating ambers onto the surrounding hills causing a few brush fires. A bus of elderly folks coming back from Vegas laughed at me while the bus driver with a lazy eye and a speech impediment called me "A f-f-f$%^ing sac of d-d-d-donky sh!t!" ..............And my ex-fiance drove bye.

3. I moved in with four shity roommates and can't afford to leave for another month.

4. Mark (beresford342654....) left me for a 4-ft Pourto-Rican man with third nipple, tupe, and a vigina. He claims that "I didn't snuggle with him enough at night"..........F#$% you Mark, F$%^ you!!!!

5. My roids flaired up for the 8th time this month. It callused so much I had to saw it off with a rusty tree trimmer and a sledge.

God damn it, why'd you have to start me up!!!!!? F$%^in Mark, Soncho had hair trails on his shoulders for christ sakes!!!!!!

Homeslice · 08-07-2007, 10:19 PM

but really, sorry again to hear about the probs but great to hear everything's working out. Come on down and and join in on an NPH rehab session.

Nick Velvet · 08-08-2007, 12:59 AM

Glad to see you are back. Hope thing will continue to get better which it usually does.

Tubbyrob · 08-08-2007, 12:01 PM

Good luck just hang in there and things will fall into place.

MouthfulOfGrass · 08-15-2007, 05:03 PM

I fully understand the quitting drinking thing, it's tough, but stick with it. The wife is worth more than the alcohol.

NulodPBall · 08-16-2007, 05:02 AM

especially #6

Beresford13861 · 08-16-2007, 07:37 AM

glad to have you back.

klymons · 08-19-2007, 12:16 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by djdoomz

Man it's been a while since I've been on here. Life has been real shitty for me over the past 4 months. But things are getting better. I've missed you guys in here. So here's what has been going on with me

1. Finally went fishing in Madera @ my cousin private spot and caught 6 bass in an hour.

2. Tipped a canoe in the San Joaquin river and lost 2 set up worth $60 each and I lost my tackle, but some dude in a canoe found it and brought it back to me.

3. Marriage was on the rocks and wife was getting ready to leave me. I moved out and was staying here and there. We've been working it out and things are almost patched up and I'm back at home.

4. Started a second job and began to drink a lot and found myself back in AA. I quit that job and it's been 6 weeks since I had a drink. I still got the nightclub job.

5. Been busting my ### for money and selling off some of my personal stuff to help pay bill, but hey I just got a $200 a month raise at work this weekend.

6. I enrolled into school and got some grants and passed the testing and I start the 27th of this month.

7. Been on the river twice this month and caught 30 Bluegill one day and about 20 the second time out. River is doing well but I need to do some control on those damn sucker fish. I'm looking for a bow & reel set up that's not too expensive. I've seen easily 100 suckerfish in that river!

8. Oh almost forgot, my computer crashed on me and I had to buy another one.

Yeah so my life has been down and it's on its way back up.

Hey, I'm probably twice as old as you, but your problems are very similiar

Unfortunately, I've got no magical solutions, just some advice learned from life. Relationship issues are tricky. You have to ask yourself--and really be honest--do I really love & care about this person and should I work to keep this relationship together? If you have drinking issues, keep working on that--relationship or not. As for suckerfish control, I have no answer on that issue. I'm sure other members will step up with advice. In the meanwhile, keep on keepin' on!

dodoman · 08-19-2007, 10:39 AM

if your asking me for an advise, slow down son, your relationship is far more important than anything.

drinking is one thing, guzzling is another. slowly maintain the drinking to a stop, or if you have the iron ba??s , just drop it.

Daddydoride · 08-20-2007, 04:10 PM

THIS IS MY FIRST POST AND IT'S NOT ABOUT FISHING. SO CONGRATS ON THE CLEAN TIME I GOT 30 DAYS TODAY.
FISHING ON SOBER LINES